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[Ash]

It's not really about people "winning" so to speak, I don't think. Why should someone conform to the aesthetically pleasing for the masses standard? It's more about that, I think. Just because everyone else thinks it's better doesn't mean you do... I'm sort of suprised no one seems to get this. The "I should cut my hair because people will like me better" attitude seems fairly pathetic to me. If a girl likes you, they are going to like you for who you are and what you look like regardless of the length of your hair. All you attracting when you conform to the standard is trash. If a girl wants nothing to do with you, then you cut your hair and suddenly she wants to talk to you, she is not the type of person you want to be involved with. Adults will take you serisouly if you deserve it. If you talk to someone, even though they may think badly of you due to your appearance, and you are intellegent, they will see that. I wouldn't take me seriously at first glance, but when I talk to customers, they always respect the information I'm giving because I don't sound like a fucking dumbass and because I know what I'm talking about. That's way more important than the length of your hair. That's bullshit. In the long run, just try and do what you want. Try not to think of anyone but yourself and decide.

[Rambo]

That's not what I mean, I don't give two shits about what people think about me, but I'm saying from personal expierence that's what happens, or at least to me.

[THIRST]

It's not really about people "winning" so to speak, I don't think. Why should someone conform to the aesthetically pleasing for the masses standard? It's more about that, I think. Just because everyone else thinks it's better doesn't mean you do... I'm sort of suprised no one seems to get this. The "I should cut my hair because people will like me better" attitude seems fairly pathetic to me. If a girl likes you, they are going to like you for who you are and what you look like regardless of the length of your hair. All you attracting when you conform to the standard is trash. If a girl wants nothing to do with you, then you cut your hair and suddenly she wants to talk to you, she is not the type of person you want to be involved with. Adults will take you serisouly if you deserve it. If you talk to someone, even though they may think badly of you due to your appearance, and you are intellegent, they will see that. I wouldn't take me seriously at first glance, but when I talk to customers, they always respect the information I'm giving because I don't sound like a fucking dumbass and because I know what I'm talking about. That's way more important than the length of your hair. That's bullshit. In the long run, just try and do what you want. Try not to think of anyone but yourself and decide.

Eh, so hje can get a job. And out his/our age, a lot of girls wont like you for who you are, but what you look like. As for the cutting hair thing/girls start talking to you more, that's what happened to me.. He really should take the job, its a great oppurtunity.

THIRST

THIRST

[Spaztic 75]

Uhh, why is everyone assuming that girls don't like my hair.